In my last 3-4 days not at work, I have been following this TVB drama serial, Moonlight Resonance. Everything was good up till the final episode, where I felt everything ended too abruptly. Many things were all rushed through during the final episode. As per the chinese title, everyone ended up happily ever after. But to me, I felt an emptiness in me. I felt like I have lost something to do for the next few months. There are many things that I have learnt and will apply to my everyday life.

1) Never be a JOE .

If you are never going to be serious in a relationship, you had best stop being in one because you will end up hurting whoever follows you. So what if someone else
is prettier, lusty and seductive? Years down the road, she'll be wrinkled and
you will see her true colours, how she has treated you and how stupid you have been.
One mistake would lead to unhappiness forever, especially to your descendents.
I take akin to this because I have a father exactly like that and we are suffering because of his selfishness. DO NOT PUT YOUR NEXT GENERATION INTO SUCH MISERY. If you decide to settle down, better be good to your wife/husband. Whatever you do, Heaven is watching. Retribution will come about.

2) Never be a Princess Athena

If you ever love someone, PLEASE love the person wholeheartedly because, everytime you make a mistake, you say you're sorry, it doesn't help. The pain the person has gone through is already set in. Don't be a wishy-washy type and make every one unhappy. Once you love someone, stop thinking about someone else.

3) Never be Salina/Hong/Camie

When it comes to lying, regardless of what circumstance you have to lie, DON'T! Lying is as good as stealing, robbing, killing. There are people out there who lie, but don't join them, because lying only makes your life more miserable. 10 lies to cover up 1 lie, 100 lies will be needed to cover 10 lies. It's a vicious, neverending cycle.

4) Never be Yuan

Never let someone hold your secret as hostage. Be brave and admit your mistakes. If you fall down, there will be a whole bunch of people who knows you who will pick you up.

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4) Be a Yue/Qing/Jia

Believe, and what you believe will come true. Sometimes things do not seem as bad as they are. After a while you will realise with the right attitude, everything will come true. And you will never have to suffer again. Never lose faith.




I guess in this lifetime, there are more things you should NOT do rather than the things you should do. If ever one day I am in distress I will turn to this page and remember all the lessons I have learnt from the show itself. It was a meaningful 40 episodes of Moonlight Resonance. I am happy to have seen it.