Recently I got this msg from a very close person to me. Just like to share it.

Dear Michael Liao,

From the time you were with Danielle, and got cheated on, you decided from then on you would never allow your gf to interact too much with other people, even if it's their friends. Then came Michelle, and you decided. Never will you allow women to mix with men too much, or to spend too much of your money. When it came down to Jasmine, instead of doing what you preach, you allowed both to happen. You let her mix with all her friends, ex bfs or whatever and you spent every cent you have on her.

Then came the biggest problem with you, you decided to stop everything from happening, and to express your love for Jasmine, you bought a diamond ring for her hoping to interest her. And of cos hoping to gain security from what seem like a tough situation to handle. It backfired, she gave you the answer, I'm not ready to settle down - which sounds not too bad. I wanna play around - this tore my heart, made me so destroyed. Then came the fated slap to a guy so insecured by words used by someone he loves so much. The eruption continued, and you declares 02mar08 100 days of punishment to his most beloved. Everyone thinks you have gotten over the hurt, you looked like you mellowed down, hair down because of work. But I know your hair is down because you are down. And now you have the exact same hair as when you were down. 03Mar08, you ended your promised 'punishment' and contacted Jasmine again. You thought you were going to be happy for the rest of your life when she said she want to get back. You thought you had managed to make your relationship life the best going into this. But you were wrong. Now things have backfired again, things are, quite possibly, not even going to be close to what was in the past.

The gamble you took was right. A piece of cake on the table waiting to be eaten, and A bunch of pretty grapes on the tree. You could have taken the cake and ate it. But you chose to wait for the pretty grapes, end the cake's wait and now the cake is gone, some other taker took it. Bless the cake. Now your grapes seem even further away due to the tree growing taller. 100days of absence have made the gap grow further. Whether you get the grapes or not, it might not be the same to force. Don't let go Michael Liao, if it's meant to be, IF TIME REALLY CAN HEAL WOUNDS, you will be a happy man.

With time, things will be better. "I need somemore time". Time = gap. You drift further apart. But Michael, remember 02May08. On this day, do what you want to do. Lock you heart, pray for the grapes happiness, even if it's in other people's hands. For love is a magical thing, it gives to you all the motivation in life you require, you being such an emotional man. But it will destroy you as well if you can't control you life. Once you lock your heart, don't cry like you have done tonight. Be strong and excel in your career. From then on, grow up. Life is full of ups and downs, you will never lose everytime. But if you are honest and knows how to handle your emotions, you will be the best in what you do. I wish you the best Michael Liao.

Best Regards,
Liao Lixuan.

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LOVE TAKES TIME (Mariah Carey)

I had it all
But I let it slip away
Couldn’t see that I treated you wrong
Now I wander around
Feeling down and cold
Trying to believe that you’re gone

Chorus:
Love takes time
To heal when you’re hurting so much
Couldn’t see that I was blind
To let you go
I can’t escape the pain
Inside
Love takes time
I don’t want to be here alone

Losing my mind
From this hollow in my heart
Suddenly I’m so incomplete
Lord I’m needing you now
Tell me how to stop the rain
Tears are falling down endlessly

Chorus

You might say that it’s over
You might say that you don’t care
You might say you don’t miss me
You don’t need me
But I know that you do and I feel that you do
Inside

Chorus